Finance is about "the amount of freedom"

No matter how much we talk about the spiritual part of our life, including the moral part, the financial part still remains an indicator of our freedom, perhaps not so important and sometimes necessary, but still freedom.

Each of us has our own past, our own unique background, and this is what makes our experience unique.

I grew up in a family without a father and to say that it was not easy is the same as saying nothing. It's absolutely not easy, not only because you don't get the full amount of parental love, despite the fact that my mother tried to show it to me in full and even more, but also because you simply lack the strongest, reliable shoulder next to which you can rely on. The most important person to whom you can not hesitate to call and say that you need help and he will just do everything for you, without asking or explaining anything.

Somehow it so happened that I didn't have to ask about money in my life, and if I needed something, I went and earned myself, even from the first year of university I managed to combine everything with work and at the same time deduct part of my salary home.

I have always believed since childhood that money is dust, certainly not bringing happiness, but everything has somehow changed with age, every year you begin to realize that in order to achieve something in life, you need to go somewhere and financial viability is one of such goals. Just the fact that you want to give your children a little more than your parents had the opportunity to give you, makes you move mountains.

Nevertheless, money can also cause expansion in the family. The main reason for divorces can be just family disagreements on a financial basis. It is very important to understand when getting married that you accept your future spouse as he is, with his ambitions, goals in life, career plans, entirely. Sometimes it can become an incredibly destructive factor for loss of respect, humiliation and many others.

One of the main tips that you should listen to can be called a qualified education or a good financial literacy savvy. Before the marriage, discuss this area, try to listen to each other. And also tell each other about your positions on this issue. One of the good tips can also be planning your own budget outside of a family marriage, since with sufficient education you will always have a person you can rely on in case of any difficulties. It is this person who will be able to organize the correct functional, healthy operation of funds.

There may be different cases in life, but always the main concern in the family about finances was for the head of the family - the father. Fathers are not only the financial support of the family, they are the very people who tend to show you life stability and cultivate the right life values. That is why the indicators of families with a father in it indicate stronger stress stability in children.

And no matter how much I say, no matter what family I grew up in, it certainly does not mean that I should repeat the past of my family and parents, staying where they finished their story. Each of us has a choice to fix everything, go to another country, get a prestigious education, find a reliable and dear to the heart, a loved one, build a house and have children. All this is possible if you only believe, believe and work and correctly say - “Happiness is not about money, they are about their quantity, or rather in the amount of freedom that they can give.”